Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. We are not registered, and kindly ask that no gifts be brought. We know that traveling to celebrate with us requires time, effort and expense—and we’re truly grateful for your love and support. That’s more than enough. If you feel strongly about giving, we invite you to consider a donation in our names to one of the causes close to our hearts linked below. Your generosity there would mean the world to us.

The wedding will be centered around the Greystone Inn inside of the Lake Toxaway Country Club community. The Greystone Inn has a limited number of rooms so we have also blocked vacation rentals inside of the Country Club managed by The Lake Toxaway Company, many of which are walkable to the Greystone Inn.

We’re asking guests to join us in black-tie attire—but feel free to make it your own. Think classic elegance with room for personality for a weekend party at your eccentric aunt's swanky lake house: tuxedos, gowns and creative touches are all welcome. Whether that means a bold color, a statement accessory, or a playful twist on tradition, we’d love to see your style shine within the formal vibe.

Although we love most of your children, we are requesting that you do not bring them to our celebration.